A Farewell to Ah-nold

In this case, it was just a vibe I was getting.  The more I talked to him on msn, the stronger it got.  My gut instinct was basically just that we weren't compatible.  We come from different worlds, for one thing. 

There's also the matter of how he kept bringing up his ex.  That in itself is a red flag I think, but when he kept saying how awful she was and how she ruined his life, I got a bit overwhelmed with what was obviously some major baggage.

 

Let's talk about baggage for a minute.  I actually don't think I have that much.  In my few notable relationships, I've always been the dumper, not the dumpee.  Sure I've had my fair share of "Why the hell doesn't he call anymore!" but I wouldn't say that's devastating -- it's just disappointing for about a week at most.  So what I'm saying is, my baggage is probably more like a tote bag. 

Arnold's seemed more like a footlocker.

In completely unrelated news, how cute is that monogrammed tote bag?!  Dear Santa...   *hint hint*